Video about how to overcome being emotionally unavailable:
WHY I'M EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE
The reality of codependence is that we get in relationship with people who feel familiar - people who will repeat our childhood emotional dynamics. Just as insane and ridiculous as the concept of murder and war in the name of God. And that personal defectiveness is a lie. It sounds simple and it is. You will readily work for what you want and what you believe is a worthy pursuit, A responsible outlook and a need to achieve leads you to successful ventures, these can be from the minor to the visionary and your will to succeed carries you through. Moon in Virgo With your Moon in Virgo you do nothing rashly as you plan for the long term, careful and astute with money and security in the short and long term is very important to you. There are one million people as close to you as a tenth cousin, and no one is further removed from you than a 50th cousin. We have spent incredible energy in our lives trying to keep the toxic shame hidden. Your gut may be attracted to those who only seem available when they are choosing you, but when they catch you, they lose interest. A childhood or genetic fear can push the panic button - outside your awareness. Because it wasn't safe to be emotionally honest we lost our self - did not know how to be emotionally intimate with our self, and instead constructed a false self image to survive. It is necessary to take down the dysfunctional defense systems but we have to replace them with defenses that work. It is very common for us to have a secret that involves a way in which we were abused - physically, sexually, etc.
In not understanding fear — and worse yet, attempting to make a convoluted and bazaar theory explain simple facts — you confuse and add to the fear. You must show strength where unscrupulous people are concerned, and use your powerful intuition to guide you, naivety is not your friend. Some of John's Jesuit background showing I think. Bands of outlaws -- poachers, thieves, vagrants, murderers, rapists -- were common. You end up feeling alone, depressed, unimportant, or rejected. Fear is no benefit to find solutions. Allowing someone to see into us, to see who we really are, feels to the disease like the last thing we want to do - and it generates incredible fear of allowing that kind of intimacy. It becomes real for you. Your favorite place is the world of your imagination, which is rich, romantic and pure escapism. You can only value them if you are in the one-down position, which makes you more easily dismissed by them, hence abandoned again. It is difficult for you to relax and trust the process of love and being in love. Dismissively attached adults will often seek out relationships and enjoy spending time with their partner, but they may become uncomfortable when relationships get too close. A childhood or genetic fear can push the panic button - outside your awareness. Sun in an Air sign, Gemini — Libra — Aquarius, your Moon in Aries gives you an exceptional ability to express yourself, and a discretionary intellect, giving you a shrewd business mind. In response, the avoidant attached child learns early in life to suppress the natural desire to seek out a parent for comfort when frightened, distressed, or in pain. If you are still not certain of your own Focus and Attracting power, visit Law of Attraction. Because it wasn't safe to be emotionally honest we lost our self - did not know how to be emotionally intimate with our self, and instead constructed a false self image to survive. A large part of the tragedy of codependency - the insidiously dysfunctional nature of the disease - is that by repeating the patterns we keep setting ourselves up to be abandoned and rejected. Fear facts — Science and Ancient Wisdom. When there are any hardships you roll up your sleeves and get on with it without any complaints, with friends and family you will do anything. Once these hormones are released throughout the body, they begin to trigger defensive mechanisms such as raising adrenaline and cortisol levels, and increasing heart rate and respiration. You are looking for it, and you attract it in. If your Sun in an Earth sign, Taurus — Virgo — Capricorn, a Taurus Moon means you will have staying power and you will never give in, giving you the get up and go to ensure you will be able to achieve and maintain material comforts. Fear is then Attracted to you because 1st you read and hear it and confirm your fear; -and 2nd you give it your Attention and fear it — and then 3rd you draw it in and experience it. Your feelings follow your thoughts. The Moon in Taurus will give you stoic determination and perseverance making you approach life in a practical and logical manner, understand the need to earn money. Out of our codependent relationship with life, there are only two extremes:
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